Thursday, October 18, 2012

parent yg bias?

Posted by mummY daniSha at 8:17 AM
Sesungguhnya ibubapa yang berlaku adil
akan diberkan ganjaran syurga di akhirat kelak sebagaimana
yang tersebut dalam hadith Rasulullah s.a.w, maksudnya:
 "Sesiapa yang mempunyai anak perempuan, kemudian tidak dihinakan
dan tidak mengutamakan anak lelaki dari anak perempuan,
nescaya dia dimasukkan Allah ke dalam syurga.” (Abu Daud & Hakim)

in a perfect world, parents would have no faveret
 and would treat all their children equally, fairly and justly
  but we dun't live in a perfect world
actually,kalau ayah bias,masuk akal lg kan
setiap anak dilahirkan dari rahim ibu,
dikandung 9 bulan
tp still ramai ibu yg bias....why does it happen?
 
hadis Rasulullah yang maksudnya
“Persamakan antara anak-anak kamu dalam pemberian.”
 riwayat At Tabranni
parents always favour the younger child,upssss but not me!
atau kalau ada sorang je anak lelaki/perempuan
itulaa yg akan paling disayang

yess,now i have only a doter
tp insyaALLAH kalau ada rezeki,adik2 danisha
i promised myself to never be bias!
coz i believe that a child always knows
 and feels it intensely when they are not favoured
of kos, the favoured ones wouldn't care more about it!

14 cuTe fRenS:

Unknown on October 18, 2012 at 8:51 AM said... Reply To This Comment

betul, tp takut kadang2 kita tak sedar kita dah terpilih kasih dengan mereka. Kena selalu beringat kan, takut anak2 jauh hati dengan kita...

Suraya Baharun on October 18, 2012 at 9:12 AM said... Reply To This Comment

semoga saya akan menjadi bonda yang memeberi kasih sayang yang sama rata buat anak2 saya...

Kakzakie Purvit on October 18, 2012 at 9:26 AM said... Reply To This Comment

Alhamdulillah buat masa ini kakak rasa kasih kakak tumpah pada ketiga-tiganya sama. Bukan mudah nak dapat satu pun kan, dah dapat kena beri kasih sepenuhnya...

Unknown on October 18, 2012 at 10:29 AM said... Reply To This Comment

insya allah mas..kadang2 sebagai mak bapak kita da cuba bagi layanan yg adil..tapi kadang2 anak tak rasa macam tu..so kita kena terangkan dan bagi mereka faham dlm setiap tindakan kita..

Kayna on October 19, 2012 at 5:46 PM said... Reply To This Comment

yerp. Harap kayna pun x bias. sayang sangat 2-2... masih 2 laa takat ni.. hehehe

RIZZNA on October 20, 2012 at 12:36 AM said... Reply To This Comment

kenapa kebanyakkannya ibu yg bias eakk?, yeappp sbb hubby CiM mmg takkan pilih kasih.

As what u read on my post, bukannya nak membandingkan kasih syg, it just mayb my second son tu still younger. so, perhatian lebih mungkin lebih kepadanya...

mummY daniSha on October 20, 2012 at 9:40 AM said... Reply To This Comment

@~ yus ~ betul..sebab anak2 mesti ingat sampai bile2 kalau kite bias kan

mummY daniSha on October 20, 2012 at 9:40 AM said... Reply To This Comment

@Suraya Baharun amin...we try our best,insyaallah

mummY daniSha on October 20, 2012 at 9:41 AM said... Reply To This Comment

@Kakzakie yess..itu yg terbaik kan kak

mummY daniSha on October 20, 2012 at 9:41 AM said... Reply To This Comment

@Rai Ourkizuna betul...yg paling penting hati kite..sebab biasanya anak akan rasa apa yg kite rasa

mummY daniSha on October 20, 2012 at 9:42 AM said... Reply To This Comment

@Kayna hee..sy baru sorang..memang x biasla hehe

mummY daniSha on October 20, 2012 at 9:43 AM said... Reply To This Comment

@Cinta Misteri itu bukan bias...sebab adik kecik lg kan...cuma kite kene terangkan kat diela,ng die paham kan

BABY(MAMA AMANA&ARIEF) on October 21, 2012 at 10:31 PM said... Reply To This Comment

anak ila dah dua. dulu mmg risau caner nak saynag no 2. yg no 2 lelaki. sekarang rasa mcm sayang sgt kt yg no 2. anak no 1 pulak mmg hsbd lebih sayang.. mungkin pbezaan jantina kot..

Deq's Qienz on October 21, 2012 at 11:41 PM said... Reply To This Comment

Sy pon mcm sis jugak baru ada sorng ank..yg ke2 ke3 tak tahu lagi cmna datangnya..harapnya kite belaku adil la nt yerr..

 

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