yuppp
it isn't easY to get the scoop on sKooL from our own child
esp yg baru 3,4 taun mcm cha cha
everY time amek danisha mama akan tanye
"wat did u learn at skooL today?"
surely die akan jawab "main playground je"
then mama tanye macam2 lg,
but she can't remember everything she did,
and even she could she wouldn't know how to start it!
but is is still important to ask about skooL
coz it teaches our child dat skooL is important
and dat we really are interested in their liFe
so,how can i get cha cha to open up?
don't ask too soon
she could be busy playing wit her toys in the car!
hahha..kete penuh mainan ok!ke mana2 mesti nak bawak toyS =)
tp wardina berpendapat,
we should ask our child dalam kete lg
coz they still remember wat they did at skooL
kalau dah lame2 takut lupe pulakkan..
tp memang danisha sibuk benda lain dlm kete
kalau x main toys pun,..she will read books or nyanyi2 hhahaa
ask specific question
mayb my questions are too abroad to process
mayb i can ask about something i'm pretty sure
she did at skool dat day
cthnye...sape duduk sebelah danisha kat skool td?
hahhaa..hopefully danisha tau die duduk sebelah sape erkkkk
read everything the teacher sends home
i will check all the books and watever the teacher sends home
wit doing dat,
i'm able to find out wat danisha is learning about
and sometimes mama akan ajar balik ape yg teacher ajar kat skooL
give our child space
some children like to think of skool as their own private world
so,let them know dat we are interested in their skool
then stay in touch behind the scenes with the teacher
to make sure everything's going OK
hurrrmmm..
x sabar nak tgk danisha pandai ngaji,solat dan membaca =)
