asK Our child about skooL everY day

yuppp

it isn't easY to get the scoop on sKooL from our own child

esp yg baru 3,4 taun mcm cha cha

everY time amek danisha mama akan tanye

"wat did u learn at skooL today?"

surely die akan jawab "main playground je"

then mama tanye macam2 lg,

but she can't remember everything she did,

and even she could she wouldn't know how to start it!

but is is still important to ask about skooL

coz it teaches our child dat skooL is important

and dat we really are interested in their liFe

so,how can i get cha cha to open up?

don't ask too soon

she could be busy  playing wit her toys in the car!

hahha..kete penuh mainan ok!ke mana2 mesti nak bawak toyS =)

tp wardina berpendapat,

we should ask our child dalam kete lg

coz they still remember wat they did at skooL

kalau dah lame2 takut lupe pulakkan..

tp memang danisha sibuk benda lain dlm kete

kalau x main toys pun,..she will read books or nyanyi2 hhahaa

ask specific question

mayb my questions are too abroad to process

mayb i can ask about something i'm pretty sure

 she did at skool dat day

cthnye...sape duduk sebelah danisha kat skool td?

hahhaa..hopefully danisha tau die duduk sebelah sape erkkkk

read everything the teacher sends home

i will check all the books and watever the teacher sends home

wit doing dat,

i'm able to find out wat danisha is learning about

and sometimes mama akan ajar balik ape yg teacher ajar kat skooL

give our child space

some children like to think of skool as their own private world

so,let them know dat we are interested in their skool

then stay in touch behind the scenes with the teacher

 to make sure everything's going OK

hurrrmmm..
x sabar nak tgk danisha pandai ngaji,solat dan membaca =)