stageS in marriaGe

marriage means contract or aqad in arabic

marriage is a union between two people and their families
people alwiz said dat,

be4 kawin x sama mcm lepas kawin..totally diff!

coz he/she doesn't show his/her true colors

 until he/she knows he's got you!so true rite?

 

yess,there a few stages of marriage
they are the milestones of your marriage development
lets see the stage of marriage!
the first stage of kos,the hanimun stage!
setaun dua kawen la kan...sgtlaa berbunga..

ada taman dalam hati hahaa
tp depend pada marriage tu sendiri
ada yg hanimun cumaa 5,6 bulan jee
dats why,ramai yg bercerai kat fasa ni,seyes!
but for me,x de hanimun pun..coz bunting pelamin
so dah ada tggjwb as a parent

alhamdulillah,we have passed dis stage

then it comes to reality stage...

the hanimun is over OK hahaa
at this time,we will see the true kaler of our partner
it is the most difficult because it is here that many

experience the biggest fall

 

fasa ke 3 ialah the struggle stage..

fasa untuk mengubah pasangan!

there's lots of tension in the marriage..

segala nampak salah di mata

then mulela pk how could i have married u?
ohhhhhh tidakkkkk!

stage 4 the transformation stage,
at dis stage,dah kire selamatlaa,insyaallah
dah more forgiving n  compromise wit each other

last stage is of kos the succes stage!
yeaahhh together at last =)

no matter how many stage,it is just a stage...

of kos there are up n down in marriage

for me,the most important thing is give n take
dan of kos,menjalankan perintah ALLAH
coz kajian menunjukkan,banyak penceraian
berlaku sebab pasangan x solat
apapun..jodoh itu ketentuan darinya
kite hanya mampu banyak2 berdoa agar
ALLAH tetapkan hati pasangan hanya utk kitee

 heeeee gambar kawen 5 tahun lepas =P